Formal Events in Canada: Proms, Galas, and What to Wear
In this episode, we talk about attending formal events in Canada and what we wear to those events. We talk about childhood graduations, high school prom, and the fancy events we have attended as adults. Larissa shares what she has learned through her children about what the youth of today think is cool to wear (the shoes might suprise you!) and Misha talks about a few items of clothing she has made herself.
Misha and Larissa explore the topic of formal events, beginning with childhood memories of graduations and school dances. Misha recalls dressing up for a grade five graduation and later a grade eight graduation, while Larissa remembers missing some traditional school celebrations because of travel and other opportunities.
The conversation moves to high school dances, semi-formals, and prom. Larissa shares how she skipped prom but still celebrated by dressing up with friends and going out for a special dinner. Misha attended prom events, including one held on a boat, and remembers the excitement of choosing dresses and hoping to dance with a crush.
As they discuss formal clothing, they notice how fashion has changed over time. One trend that surprises them is the popularity of wearing sneakers with formal dresses and suits. What once seemed unusual is now common among teenagers, and both hosts agree that comfort is a major advantage.
This leads to a nostalgic discussion about pantyhose. They explain what pantyhose are, remember being expected to wear them as young girls, and laugh about how uncomfortable and fragile they were. Stories about arguments with parents over pantyhose and receiving them as Easter gifts highlight how fashion expectations have changed across generations.
The hosts also compare formal events they have attended as adults. Misha remembers fundraising galas where she enjoyed sewing or choosing special outfits, including garments inspired by her time living in Laos and India. Larissa recalls formal events in Qatar and reflects on feeling underdressed compared to others, especially because Canadian culture tends to be relatively casual.
The conversation touches on cultural clothing and the difference between appreciating and appropriating cultural traditions. Misha shares experiences wearing saris and Lao textiles and explains how people generally responded positively because of her genuine appreciation for the fabrics, craftsmanship, and cultures behind them.
Later, Larissa talks about her daughter’s experience attending a ringette gala. Because her daughter prefers comfortable, practical clothing, she was hesitant to dress up. The event organizers encouraged participants to “dress to express” rather than “dress to impress,” creating an atmosphere where many different styles were accepted. This experience helped show that formal events can accommodate a wide range of personal expression.
Throughout the episode, Misha and Larissa reflect on how their own attitudes toward fashion have evolved. They discuss the balance between practicality and self-expression, the fun of occasionally dressing up, and the importance of feeling comfortable and authentic. The episode ends with the idea that formal events are less about strict rules and more about celebrating special occasions in a way that feels right for each person.
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